My Husband M0cked My 75-Year-Old Mother When She Complained About Constant Stomach Pain: “She’s Just Trying to Get Your Money.”
“Your mother isn’t really sick, Maya. She knows you’ll keep dropping everything whenever she complains.”
Richard said it without even looking up from his phone.
Cold.
Dismissive.
As though my mother’s discomfort were nothing more than an inconvenience he had already decided wasn’t worth taking seriously.
My mother, Teresa, was seventy-five years old.
She had never been someone who complained easily.
She was the kind of woman who would sweep her porch when she was tired, water every plant before breakfast, and still insist,
“I’m fine.”
Even when she clearly wasn’t.
She lived alone in a small house in a quiet Miami neighborhood surrounded by bright bougainvillea, a Saint Jude statue beside the television, and a pot of chicken soup that somehow never seemed to run out.
But during the previous few weeks, something had changed.
She barely ate.
She looked exhausted every morning.
Sometimes, while we were talking, she would suddenly stop and press one hand against her stomach.
“Mom, something isn’t right.”
She would force a smile.
“It’s probably just age, sweetheart.”
I wanted to believe her.
Then one afternoon, while she was pouring coffee, her hand suddenly trembled and the mug slipped onto the kitchen floor.
She gripped the counter and closed her eyes.
That was enough for me.
“How long have you been feeling like this?”
“Don’t start, Maya.”
“Tell me.”
Her eyes filled with tears.
“A while.”
That night, I brought it up to Richard over dinner.
He was checking work emails as usual.
Expensive shirt.
Expensive watch.
Expensive cologne.
Yet whenever the conversation involved my mother, suddenly everything became an unnecessary expense.
“I’m taking her to a doctor tomorrow.”
Richard gave a dry laugh.
“For what? Another appointment where they tell her to rest?”
“She’s barely eating. She looks exhausted. Something is bothering her.”
“Your mother worries too much.”
My face grew warm.
“Don’t dismiss her like that.”
Richard finally put down his phone.
“Listen, Maya. We need to discuss these expenses before you make decisions.”
“She’s my mother.”
“And we’re married.”
For years, I had told myself Richard was simply careful with money.
That night, I realized it wasn’t really about money.
It was about control.
The following morning, after Richard left for work, I drove straight to Mom’s house.
“We’re going somewhere.”
She was sitting in her favorite armchair with a cardigan wrapped around her shoulders.
“Where?”
“To see a doctor.”
“Maya—”
“No arguments.”
For once, she didn’t fight me.
I took her to a clinic in Coral Gables.
The nurse checked her blood pressure and asked several questions.
Then the doctor examined her.
He ordered blood tests and imaging to rule out anything serious.
While we waited, my phone started buzzing.
Richard.
One call.
Then another.
Then messages.
Where are you?
Call me.
Why didn’t you tell me you were leaving?
I switched my phone to silent.
For once, I cared more about finding out what was wrong with Mom than about whether Richard was angry with me.
About an hour later, the doctor returned.
“Maya, would you come inside?”
Mom was sitting on the examination table.
The doctor closed the door gently.
“We found inflammation that explains much of the discomfort she’s been experiencing. It’s treatable, but I’m glad you brought her in.”
I exhaled for what felt like the first time all morning.
Then the doctor noticed something unusual.
Mom was wearing a soft abdominal support wrap beneath her cardigan.