At my son’s birthday party, my sister suddenly stood up and announced, “Since everyone’s already here, why don’t we sing for Lily too? Her birthday is only two weeks away!” Then she brought out a cake for her daughter while my son quietly lowered his eyes to the floor. I didn’t say a single word.
Then she pulled out a second cake for her own daughter. My son was still holding one of his candles. He looked down at the ground. I didn’t yell. I didn’t argue. I simply gathered my son, the gift bags, and a few things from the table, and we left. That night, my mother texted…